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The Happiest Baby on the Block
by Dr. Harvey Karp
Welcome to another edition of DocSmo.com. I am your host, Dr. Paul Smolen, a general pediatrician with now 31 years of practicing experience to share with you. A few months ago I started reading and writing reviews of some of the interesting parenting books available to parents. My hope is that I will learn a lot and I can share some of these insights with my listeners. I might also inspire you to read and discuss books related to children. I am excited to bring you a great book today by Dr. Harvey Karp called: The Happiest Baby on the block. I think you need to put this one on your must read list if you have very little babies around your house or contemplate new arrivals in the future. So lets get right into it, shall we?
Anyone who has experienced a colicky baby knows how difficult and frustrating it can be to try and console a very fretful infant less than 3 months of age. What is going on with these babies? Why do they cry so much? You are doing everything possible and still they often cry inconsolably: why? Dr. Karp attempts, and to a large degree, succeeds in answering that question in his book, “The Happiest Baby on the Block”. In a nutshell, here is what he believes is going on: Dr. Karp believes that many human infants are born, unable to cope with the barrage of stimuli presented to them. Traditionally, we call these babies “colicy”. He contends that human babies are born about three months before they have the coping skills they will need. He speculates that if birth was delayed 3 more months, their brains would become so large that they would not be able to get through the birth canal. Birth just has to happen because waiting is just not possible. He also contends that a colicy immature babies crying is their response to any irritation, both external and internal. “Easy” babies have graded crying in proportion to what is bothering them, but “colicy” babies have a “one size fits all cry”. For them it’s all or none.
Dr. Karp takes all this information one step further. He believes that even the fussiest baby can be consoled and made content by simulating the conditions in the womb. He thinks these really fussy babies are the ones that are really homesick for the womb, and that simulating conditions there is the ticket to baby happiness. Things were pretty good in the womb: warm, weightless, gentle motion, constant food with background music of the placenta. Never hungry, never thirsty with no responsibilities. Sounds pretty good.
Most of the book is spent with describing Dr. Karp’s method for simulating womb conditions, which he contends, will make even the fussy babies change into the “Happiest Babies on the Block.” In a detailed way, he describes what he calls the 5 S’s of soothing a baby: 1. Swaddling, 2. Side position, 3. Swishy noise (loud), 4. Swinging, and finally 5. Sucking. He calls the combination of these 5S’s the “Cuddle Cure” for infant crying.
So now for my take on this book. I can’t hide my enthusiasm… Dr. Karp has written a classic. This is a great book, which changes the way we look at very small infants. I think this book will be a must read for parents for decades. Dr. Karp has managed to take what is known about infant behavior and bring it to life for parents. The book is easy to read and understand, extremely informative, and even funny. You can tell that Dr. Karp is a practicing pediatrician because his advice is practical, practical, practical. He understands what parents confront with a colicy baby; he sympathizes, and helps parents take charge. He takes a look at infant crying from a cross cultural and biological viewpoints. Amazing.
In the edition that I read, some of Dr. Karp’s advice is outdated or just wrong. He advocates a side position for sleeping infants: a clear no from the AAP in today’s standards. He advocates for co-sleepers, even giving “safe co-sleeper” hints. The newest safe sleep guidelines specifically exclude co-sleeping. He also recommends that swaddling be done with the arms inside the wrap, which some experts disagree with.
Mothers for generations have known about swaddling, soothing noise, swinging etc., but Dr. Karp has put these tools together into a “method”. He should be applauded for his efforts and I think this book is a valuable tool for parents of young infants. A classic. A must read. I give it 5 DocSmo stars on a 1-5 scale: my highest rating possible. Congratulations Dr. Karp. Well done.
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This is Dr. Paul Smolen, Doc Smo, broadcasting from studio 1E in Charlotte, NC, and thanking Dr. Karp for his shedding so much light with his Happy baby insight.
Until next time.